Meenens Happy Pets

I just got a 2 month old lab/collie mix and for the past three days I've been trying to crate train her but she's not having it. I figured that the first night when she didn't sleep, it was probably just because of the new surroundings and lack of litter mates. I have another puppy who is about 5 months old, and I tried letting her sleep next to him, but they will just either play all night or attack each other. I tried letting her bark, but I live in an apartment, so I'm worried that we will be fined or worse, thrown out, if the neighbors complain. I tried giving her a command and squirting her with a squirt bottle, I've also tried making a loud noise to distract her. When none of that worked, I tried laying on the floor next to her crate, petting her, but she just tried to escape and play. I let her out a couple of times to go to the bathroom, still no sleep. I even tried holding her in bed with me. Nothing works. I haven't slept in 3 days, please help!